{"id":1889,"date":"2016-08-16T05:58:29","date_gmt":"2016-08-16T12:58:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.rhinoblues.com\/thoughts\/?p=1889"},"modified":"2019-01-16T15:18:39","modified_gmt":"2019-01-16T23:18:39","slug":"on-friendship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.rhinoblues.com\/thoughts\/2016\/08\/on-friendship\/","title":{"rendered":"On friendship\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"

In another great post from Brain Pickings<\/a>, Maria Popova muses about friendship and the commodification of the word friend:<\/p>\n

I often puzzle over the nature, structure, and function of friendship in human life \u2014 a function I have found to be indispensable to my own spiritual survival and, I suspect, to that of most human beings. But during a recent interview on Think Again<\/em><\/a>, I found myself concerned with the commodification of the word \u201cfriend\u201d in our culture. We call \u201cfriends\u201d peers we barely know beyond the shallow roots of the professional connection, we mistake mere mutual admiration for friendship, we name-drop as \u201cfriends\u201d acquaintances associating with whom we feel reflects favorably on us in the eyes of others, thus rendering true friendship vacant of Emerson\u2019s exacting definition<\/a>. We have perpetrated a corrosion of meaning by overusing the word and overextending its connotation, compressing into an imperceptible difference the vast existential expanse between mere acquaintanceship and friendship in the proper\u00a0Aristotelian sense<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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Illustration by Maurice Sendak from a vintage ode to friendship<\/a> by Janice May Udry<\/p><\/div>\n

In countering this conflation, I was reminded of philosopher Amelie Rorty\u2019s fantastic 1976 taxonomy of the levels of personhood<\/a> and wondered what a similar taxonomy of interpersonhood might look like. I envisioned a conception of friendship as concentric circles of human connection, intimacy, and emotional truthfulness, each larger circle a necessary but insufficient condition for the smaller circle it embraces.\u201cI live my life in widening circles,\u201d<\/em><\/a> Rilke wrote.<\/p>\n

\"Friendship\"<\/p>\n

Read the whole post here:\u00a0https:\/\/www.brainpickings.org\/2016\/08\/16\/friendship\/<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

In another great post from Brain Pickings, Maria Popova muses about friendship and the commodification of the word friend: I often puzzle over the nature, structure, and function of friendship in human life \u2014 a function I have found to be indispensable to my own spiritual survival and, I suspect, to that of most human … <\/p>\n

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