{"id":1781,"date":"2016-05-31T08:38:26","date_gmt":"2016-05-31T15:38:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.rhinoblues.com\/thoughts\/?p=1781"},"modified":"2016-05-31T08:38:26","modified_gmt":"2016-05-31T15:38:26","slug":"on-building-new-routines","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.rhinoblues.com\/thoughts\/2016\/05\/on-building-new-routines\/","title":{"rendered":"on building new routines\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A lot has happened over the last week. We found a new housemate and got her approved with the landlord. That was the\u00a0number one task on my to-do list and a big weight off my shoulders. I&#8217;m excited for her to move in, she manages a nearby wine shop, and seems like a lot of fun. I think we&#8217;re going to have a pretty good house between the three of us there.<\/p>\n<p>Over the long weekend, I had a friend visit from the Seattle area. She&#8217;s someone I&#8217;ve known since high school and is going through period of change and discovery\u00a0of her own. It was nice to have late night conversations talking about life, love, and finding direction. She might not know it\u2026but our conversations definitely gave me stuff to think about as I contemplate the next steps in my life. For me, one of the best things about her visit was just having someone over to continue the process of making memories in the house that belong just to me.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve explored places to build new routines over the past week or so as well. I&#8217;ve rediscovered a coffee shop that will be a great option for weekend morning coffee outings. It opens early and is close enough that I actually even want to bike there (there are actually a few places in that neighborhood that I hope to spend some time at this summer). I started meal planning again this week. While I&#8217;m already off schedule because of a great BBQ with\u00a0some of my soccer family, I had actually planned for that as well by not specifically planning things later in the week. It&#8217;s still going to take some getting used to planning meals for one (and especially improving my veggie intake) but I&#8217;m starting to return to normal.<\/p>\n<p>I did buy myself a present over the weekend:<br \/>\n<div class=\"embed-container\"><blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BGDWNr7pkG-\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"13\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:658px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\"><div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BGDWNr7pkG-\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; text-decoration:none; width:100%;\" target=\"_blank\"> <div style=\" display: flex; 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font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BGDWNr7pkG-\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\">A post shared by Ryan Gillespie (@rhinoblues)<\/a><\/p><\/div><\/blockquote><script async src=\"\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\"><\/script><\/div><br \/>\nMy current housemate has a similar hammock, and it looked so comfortable I just couldn&#8217;t pass up the great deal on Amazon when I saw it on Saturday. It arrived on Monday (yes Amazon has the USPS delivering on holidays now too) and I spent a good few hours reading and napping in it Monday afternoon. Its going to be great having it this summer, both for back yard relaxing, and hiking\/camping.<\/p>\n<p>So what&#8217;s next? Now that finding a housemate is behind me, my next goal is working on improving my job\/career\/financial situation. My current position is through a temporary agency and I am definitely underemployed in it. The company my assignment is at is also still trying to figure out its structure after being acquired last year. While there is a lot of confidence that the jobs will stay here in Portland, they could just as easily be absorbed by another site elsewhere in the US. Like most everything else in my life, I&#8217;m looking for stability (at least as much as possible), and I just don&#8217;t feel comfortable yet at my current assignment. I also need to find a position where I can get decent health insurance in my own name (as my current health insurance will go away at an as of yet unknown date). Beyond that, I&#8217;m not entirely sure what I&#8217;m looking for. It&#8217;ll be something to concentrate on in counseling over the next few weeks.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A lot has happened over the last week. We found a new housemate and got her approved with the landlord. That was the\u00a0number one task on my to-do list and a big weight off my shoulders. 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